boys

At times I think that boys were created to test us the opposite sex. I have raised three boys and really I think that boys are so much easier than girls to raise. Now I don't have any experience raising girls, but my friends have girls and I have a wonderful grand daughter, and I believe girls come out hormonal and boys just go with the flow at least while they are young. Girls don't hold their feelings in. When they are upset angry or happy whatever their emotions they freely express them, and they don't get over things as easy as boys or they have a tendency to hold on to things longer while boys think about it maybe act out but then they let it go, and are on to other things. At least that has been my experience. I sometimes think boys have been put here to test us. I think god is testing us women to see just how much we can handle before we eventually get to take over and run the world the right way. We tend to baby our boys while we encourage our girls to grow up and of course girls do. My grand daughter is growing up so fast encouraged to, and I love her to death. to me she will always be my little baby girl but she is four going on forty. While my grandson who I also love to death is one going on one! There is something about boys you just want to keep on babying and maybe it's because of the way they act. You just want to protect and shield. Don't get me wrong you want to protect and shield your daughters also but there is something about boys that you just find yourself going the extra distance. It's like we have given them permission to be irresponsible and childish while we expect our daughters to grow up and be responsible a whole lot earlier. I believe this is why in most households the women are not only working full time outside the house jobs, but then they also have full time jobs at home. It's no big secert that in this day and age we are still doing most of the daily taking care of the household and family chores. While our guys act like all they need to do is go to work and come home. Like that is all they need to do. This is our fault. Not that women don't complain about it but of course it falls on deaf ears, or they do chores so badly we quit asking for help, they really have it easy compared to the working mothers who are so overwhelmed. We baby them.As a society we allow them to get away with the childish behavior it isn't until they are well into middle age that they grow up. Not completely though. Maybe that's one reason girls usually date older boys ones they feel are closer to their age at least their mental age. now I know there are lots who act their age and they are exceptions to the norm, but not enough. the weird thing is the world is controlled by men and it almost feels if everything revolves around them. Don't believe me? Explain all the sports, or beer commericals, or all the sex and porn that has just gotten so mainstream it seems. Yes I think girls are being tested one day we will take over the world that's why we are such good mulitaskers. We have to be,otherwise who would raise the kids, or do the laundry, or cook the dinners? It's not like we want to do all those things all the time, we have been forced to in order to keep the order. What men don't seem to realize is that women find a man who can step up and share the day to day raising of the family way more sexier than one who plays video games for hours at a time. use your imagination you know what your guy does while you are taking care of family business. We allow them to get away with that behavior because we baby them. It's our nature. Now I need to go make dinner for mine!Boys will be boys after all!